It was a day when Google got us lost, we trudged the hills of Rome for kilometres in 33 degree heat and ghastly humidity, we took a risk which didn’t really pay off, a waiter was rude or maybe just weird and we got half-crushed on a peak hour bus. It is a fair question. Why do we travel?
We got moving later than we hoped but still should have had plenty of time to catch the English tour at the Villa Medici. We popped in to the nearby San Vitale church which looks a bit drab and is sunk well below street level. Both characteristics are explained by the fact that it was built in the 5th Century. For over 1600 years the local parishioners have come here. When this facade was built, Rome had just been looted by Vandals, (the tribe not the youths), a tribe called the Franks was starting to dominate Western Europe, the Hun terror had just abated and in Britannia, a certain Arthur was trying to resist the Saxons.
The church is celebrated enough to rate a cardinal, which explains the floor decoration.
Off we walked and Google said that to reach the Villa Medici we had to detour around a long stretch of ancient walls. We did, but got lost, got redirected, were blocked by a gate and a guard with a gun, got redirected and eventually found the place sitting above the Spanish Steps. I should have trusted my instincts rather than Google but we were too late for the English tour. Could we show ourselves around? No, said the woman. Only by tour. When was the next? 3.30 pm. Then a thought. What is the next tour? 12.00, in French. We took the French tour. It was that or miss out. It could have been a cheeky adventure. Sadly, to be honest, it was a bit dull. There were certainly interesting things to see but for long periods we had to wilt in the heat pretending to listen to a commentary that was incomprehensible. Even the French were struggling. The place was very heavily guarded. This is the headquarters of the French Academy in Rome and the French are clearly jumpy about something.
They are protecting a colony of French artists in Rome from people who may be pretending to speak French.
Lyn here is showing her usual respect for ancient artwork.
By 1.30 we were outside but gasping for a drink. We’d missed breakfast too. We chose an osteria with shade and ordered drinks and a pizza to share. A gangly muttering waiter may have spoken rudely about us, or not, or maybe he was just odd. He resembled an Italian Basil Fawlty. We stayed put anyway because we were dehydrated and hungry.
After lunch we walked to the gelato capital of the world, the area around the Pantheon. I bought an ice cream and we braved the crowds because we love the Pantheon. It is still wonderful, and free, but sadly the Italians have decided to tell visitors to be silent. You see the Pantheon, the great round temple to all the gods, is now a Christian church. So it makes Italian sense for a man to tell people to be silent, over a loudspeaker, in seven languages. Not even this can diminish the awe the Pantheon evokes.
150 flavours and I can choose two.
The Latin inscription on the Pantheon says “Keep a grip on your gelato”.
We began to walk back and my phone’s battery died. I thought I knew the general direction but it was a very long way and Lyn bought a map which finally saw us stagger back, exhausted, just before 4.00 pm. We were supposed to leave around five to get to the other side of Rome. We had a dinner date with friends Maree and Peter who were staying across the Tiber over towards the Vatican. Lyn fell asleep and I didn’t have the heart to wake her too quickly. We didn’t leave till six. This is bus rush hour. I nearly didn’t squeeze on behind Lyn, who was a claustrophobe well outside her comfort zone. Luckily fellow commuters saw my dilemma and hauled me in as the door closed. Once across the Tiber we changed buses for the last 700 meters and found the right flat.
We had a lovely evening, Maree cooked and we drank Chianti and Valpolicella. Inevitably we discussed travel, where we’d been ... where we were going. In both marriages it was obvious that there is a driven traveller and a more reluctant partner.
While we walked across the Tiber to find the bus stop, Lyn and I continued the conversation. Lyn said that every day of travel taught her more about herself. After a day of humid chaos, I know I was still able to feel my life was enriched by the experiences of travel. Together, we looked at the Tiber.
The bus trip home took 12 minutes. I’m writing this the following morning. When Lyn wakes, we’ll pack for the long journey home and walk outside to find our driver to the airport. We miss home, family and friends ... but the next trip is taking form in my imagination.